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On My Mind
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Here are some comments caregivers have emailed to me over the years about My Diary.

  • "I did not read all of what you wrote before I felt you may be the one person who can understand what I'm going thru. Mom has been in assisted care since my Dad was in a nursing home..."

  • "Thank you so much for all the information. I really did feel all alone in this situation. I have gained insight into my own feelings about this most difficult time in my life."

  • "First, I'm sorry that you lost your dad. It must be so hard for you during this time. I feel as if I know you both from reading your journals. I believe that you are a very strong person. You have strengthened me already. Before I read your journals I felt helpless, etc. Now at least I know we'll be able to go on. I want to help my, but I also want to stay well myself. Please take care of yourself. You have blessed our lives in such a positive way. My prayers are with you."

  • "My Dad was just diagnosed with vascular dementia, although he has been suffering for quite some time and no one would put an actual name to his condition till recently. I have been reading On My Mind and am filled with emotion. There are moments when I truly believe you are writing about my experience."

  • "Karen, I would like to say Thank You for appearing in my life. It is late and I "should have" been preparing for work tomorrow. Instead decided to do some research for another caregiver (friend). After two hours of that decided to check out your site. There are many things you spoke of that hit home for me and gave me an opportunity to do a bit more of my memory and grief work. It was very difficult (to put it lightly) at times, yet if given the chance would do it again. Thanks again and may we all walk in peace."

  • "I've read many of your journal entries, and they have been like a ray of sunlight into my world. I don't feel so alone anymore, and some of the strength you have in your spirit seems to have walked off the pages and into my own heart. I cannot tell you how you have made my journey lighter, just by sharing your experiences, strength and hope. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has been so deeply touched. Wish you and your dad well - I'm going to keep reading your journal - I've bookmarked it for myself, for anytime I feel the struggle is too much. It reminds me that there is someone who knows just how I feel. Thank-you with all my heart."

  • "I feel it is time that I wrote to tell you how much I have appreciated your "On my mind" column and that it has been my saving grace in trying to deal with the heart wrenching situation of having an aging parent in a long term care facility. I know millions of people go through it but obviously it affects some of us more than others. I just had to write finally to tell you I am there with you and thank goodness you are there for me."

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