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How to Care: Support Groups/Self-Care
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Key Words
support group, self-help group, mutual aid group, mutual support,self-help organization, self-help clearinghouse, self-help network, caregivers' network

Glossary
Support group: Two or more people who come together to deal with a shared concern or problem.


Support groups provide caregivers a meeting place where they can share information, thoughts, feelings and experiences with people who are either in the same boat or have "been there." The groups are usually a small number of individuals with a common interest who meet at a specific location on a regular basis. However, support groups are now springing up on Web site forums, bulletin boards and chat rooms; as well as on listservs, newsgroups, use-net groups and e-mail mailing lists. Whether it requires bricks and mortar or takes place in cyberspace, the support group can be one of the most valuable tools in the caregiver's survival kit.

Support groups, also called self-help groups, can be organized

  • to provide information and education about a specific disease, disability or social concern
  • to explore the psychological and social impacts of diseases, disabilities and social issues
  • to exchange information about resources and support services
  • to help individuals learn new care skills
  • to create a social network for mutual aid and support
  • for advocacy and lobbying

Caregiver support groups

  • provide social and emotional support
  • reduce caregivers' feelings of isolation
  • Give people an opportunity to vent feelings and frustrations
  • give caregivers strength to cope with stressful events and experiences
  • reduce caregivers' levels of depression and anxiety
  • give caregivers information and hope
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Things You Should Know

Support group participation

The more actively support group members participate in the group:

  • The higher their levels of satisfaction
  • The greater their coping skills
  • The more positive their attitude toward the problem or issue

Barriers to participation in support groups

  • reluctance to disclose personal problems to strangers
  • perception of joining a group as a sign of weakness
  • fear of becoming overwhelmed by other people's problems
  • lack of information on availability of groups
  • lack of support from family and friends
  • lack of information on how to start a group
  • geographic distance
  • age — older adults are less likely to seek outside help
  • ethno-cultural background
  • mobility restrictions
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Types of Support Groups

  • Traditional support groups and self-help groups
    These are usually informal groups of individuals with similar concerns who meet, on a regular basis, to exchange information and provide peer support. The group leader may be a peer or a professional facilitator. The group may be self-organized or part of a larger organization.
  • Telephone networks
    Telephone networks can be particularly effective for people who need one-on-one support but are unable to attend regular support group meetings.
  • Self-help networks
    Self-help networks consist of support groups that have banded together to form a larger organization. This usually provides a strong base for fundraising initiatives and advocacy and lobbying activities. Self-help networks usually have a single focus or cover a specific geographic location.
  • Self-advocacy groups
    Self-advocacy groups focus on educating the public about the group's priority issues and lobbying decision-makers to bring about legislative, policy and program changes and initiatives.
  • Online support and self-help groups
    • Discussion groups on the Internet
      Individuals can post messages and respond to messages on bulletin boards or enter "live" chat rooms.
    • Newsgroups on e-mail
      Individuals can post and respond to messages on bulletin boards.
    • E-mail mailing lists
      Subscribers to a specific e-mail account share ideas, feelings and information.
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Things to Look For

Successful support groups

  • provide a safe, secure, welcoming environment
  • respect the confidentiality of members' discussions
  • encourage members to be respectful towards each other
  • emphasize emotional support and practical coping skills and strategies
  • encourage active participation and active listening on the part of all members
  • encourage members to give and receive help
  • are open to all members of the public who share a common experience
  • hold meetings on a regular basis, preferably free of charge
  • have an organizational framework
  • are run by and for group members
  • use peer members as facilitators and educators
  • invite professionals to participate as guest speakers and to play a consultative role
  • have strong community links
  • share their collective knowledge about a wide range of resources


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